You are the Missing Piece to the Love you Crave.
For most of your life, you have been taught that a relationship brings happiness. That a boyfriend or girlfriend, a husband or wife is going to make you feel whole. That they’re going to fill that emptiness feeling inside you. And so, you move through life looking for “the one” to complete you. When in fact, for this whole time, the missing piece has not been inside another… this whole time it’s actually been in you.
If you were raised by parents who had a habit of being overly critical, who suppressed their emotions or suppressed yours, and who had a habit of blaming you instead of taking responsibility themselves…
A big part of your relationships is how you relate to one another. Looking at the longer relationships in your life currently, how do you feel about those people today? Is there any lingering resentment?
Have you been struggling to maintain a healthy, stable relationship? Do you keep meeting these potential partners in hopes that they could be the one, only to have the same sort of scenario play out where you become needy, clingy, and perhaps even a little emotionally unstable causing the relationship to plummet?